Read This Before You Date
@mike_speaks2Before you go on another date, swipe right, cut somebody off, or convince yourself you’re behind… read this.
Read This Before You Date is a collection of notes, observations, and lessons I’ve picked up while coaching people around the world about dating and relationships.
This isn’t a rulebook. I’m not here to tell you who to date or give you another list of 47 red flags.
I want to help you slow down, think clearly, ask better questions, and stop making dating harder than it has to be.
Inside, we talk about things like artificial timelines, standards vs. rigidity, chemistry vs. compatibility, emotional safety, dating potential, overgiving, conflict, curiosity, and learning how to see the actual human being in front of you.
Every reflection is short enough to read in a few minutes, but designed to give you something to sit with afterward.
Think of it like getting access to the notebook I keep in my head after coaching sessions.
If you’re dating, thinking about dating again, starting over after a relationship, or simply trying to make better relationship decisions — start here.
- 15 honest dating reflections
- Simple “Sit With This” questions throughout
- Practical perspective without turning dating into a job interview
- Made for real adults navigating real lives
- Instant digital download