The First 72 Hours: A Gentle Checklist

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I'm Lisa. In July 2021, my husband died suddenly — no warning, no goodbye — and nobody handed me a list of what to do first. Your world just broke open — and already, everyone needs answers. What do you do first?

Get The First 72 Hours and take the first three days one step at a time — the handful of things that truly can't wait, in an order that makes sense, and honest permission to let the rest wait. Written widow-to-widow, from what I wish someone had handed me on the worst day of my life.

What's Inside:

• Step One — First, the calls: who to call first, and in what order

• Choosing a funeral home — what to ask, and what can wait

• Step Two — Three decisions that feel enormous, explained gently

• What they'll wear, burial or cremation — there's no wrong answer

• Death certificates — order 10–15 copies now, and why

• Step Three — Who needs to know today, and who can safely wait

• What can wait a week or more — Social Security, banks, the DMV

• Checkboxes to tick off as you go — paper remembers for you

• Lisa's notes throughout — including the phone-tree tip that helps most

• Before you close this — give yourself grace

One thing at a time, friend — the paperwork will wait. You matter more. 🤍